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Are you a JOYMAKER?

You don't have to be loud, funny, or performative. You just have to choose to elevate the people around you. Joymakers believe…

Joy is medicine that multiplies when shared.

NO, I KEEP MY JOY TO MYSELF
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GoalConnection
GroupPairs
Duration5–15 min
EnergyChill
PhysicalityNo touch
VulnerabilityPersonal

Instructions for the leader

Activity: Directed Curiosity Dyad Divide participants into pairs and have them sit comfortably facing each other. Pre-Activity Guidance: Frame the session as an exercise in radical autonomy and self-directed intimacy. Emphasize that participants control the depth of conversation by choosing the exact question they want to be asked. Structure & Rules: Prompt Request: Person A asks Person B, "What question do you wish me to ask you?" Question Delivery: Person B states their desired question (e.g., "What is a project you are deeply passionate about right now?"). Honest Answer: Person A repeats the exact question back to Person B, who answers honestly for 1–2 minutes without interruption. Role Reversal: Swap roles so Person B asks Person A for their desired question. Timing: Allocate 5 minutes total per pair (2.5 minutes per side), followed by a brief whole-room reflection.

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